I had a tie that was too wide. If memory serves, it was donated to a charity event, and I was the highest bidder at the silent auction. Sadly, my winning bid was in the neighborhood of $10.
After one week and $12, the seamstress brought it under control, lightly steam-pressed it into shape, and it released it to me.
Before at left. Post-trimming and reforming on the right.
Before and after.
Don't throw in the towel on a too-wide tie if you like the pattern and weight. If you can't find a seamstress around you to reform it, send it up here and I'll drop it off for you.